The Farewell (2019) is a heartfelt drama that follows Billi, a Chinese-American woman who returns to China with her family under the guise of a wedding celebration. In reality, they are gathering to say goodbye to their beloved matriarch, Nai Nai, who has been diagnosed with terminal cancer. However, the family decides not to tell Nai Nai about her condition, believing that she would not want to live knowing her fate. The film explores the cultural conflict between Western and Eastern attitudes towards death, secrecy, and family bonds.
The story delicately portrays Billi’s inner turmoil as she grapples with the ethics of lying to Nai Nai while also honoring her family’s wishes. The film delicately balances humor and emotion, revealing the complexity of family relationships, especially in the face of loss. Ultimately, The Farewell is a poignant exploration of love, identity, and the cultural divide between East and West, anchored by an exceptional performance by Awkwafina.